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A long sales cycle is rarely a negotiation. It is a waiting room.
The buyer is interested. You are ready. And somewhere between those two facts, days become weeks, because nobody knows what happens next, someone important has not seen the proposal or the quote has not arrived. None of that is resolved by pushing harder. Pressure makes the waiting room more uncomfortable. Friction removal gets people through the door.
Why do sales take so long?
Because buying is a risk to the buyer, and risk slows people down.
In "The New B2B Sales Imperative," Nick Toman, Brent Adamson and Cristina Gomez describe buyers as deeply uncertain and stressed, in part because of abundant information about every solution, and facing a growing raft of stakeholders. The article's central instruction is blunt (and it pairs well with building the follow-up before you buy the traffic): "You need to make it easy for your customers to buy."1
Bias adds weight
Daniel Kahneman, Dan Lovallo and Olivier Sibony write that awareness of cognitive biases has done little to improve the quality of business decisions. Their examples include confirmation bias, anchoring on a single piece of information and loss aversion, which makes people overly cautious.2 Put those together and you get a buyer who wants to say yes, fears being wrong and is waiting for a reason to feel safe. Pressure feeds that fear. Clarity answers it.
You need to make it easy for your customers to buy.
Where does time actually leak?
Five places. Look for them in your own pipeline before you change anything.
1. The conversation ends without a next step
"I'll send something over" and "let's circle back" are not next steps. They hand the clock to the buyer. A real next step has a date, an owner and an action, such as "I'll send the proposal by 3 p.m. tomorrow, and we'll review it together on Thursday at 10."
2. The decision-maker never joined
If you only spoke to a champion, the real decision is happening in a room you are not in. That can add weeks while your champion tries to explain your offer secondhand.
3. The proposal is slow
Every day between the call and the proposal gives doubt more time to grow. The same goes for the first reply, which is why lead response time matters so much. Buyers cool off, and other priorities move in.
4. The path to yes is unclear
If someone has to ask how to pay, what happens after, or what is included, you have added a small delay at the exact moment they were ready. In my view, a delay costs more near the finish line than at the start.
5. The risk is vague
When the buyer cannot picture what happens if it does not work, they hold off. Clear terms, a defined scope and honest explanations of what you do if something goes wrong reduce perceived risk without adding pressure.
How do you remove the friction?
Fix each leak with a specific habit.
| Pressure tactic | Friction removal |
|---|---|
| "This price is only good until Friday" (when it is not true) | "I have two openings in May. Here is what each means for your start date." |
| Following up to ask "have you decided?" | Following up with something useful: an answer to an open question, a summary or a draft plan |
| Asking for a decision on the call | Agreeing exactly what the buyer needs to decide and by when |
| Hiding the terms until the end | Stating scope, price and terms in the first proposal |
Map the decision in the first real conversation
Ask plainly: "Who else will be part of this decision, and what will each of them want to know?" Then offer to help. Offer a one-page summary the champion can forward, or invite the other person to a short call. You are not going around anyone. You are helping your champion do their job.
Send the proposal within a day
Draft the skeleton of your proposal before the call, so you only need to fill in the specifics. Aim to send it within a business day. If that is impossible, say when it will arrive, and be on time.
Make the proposal forwardable
Write it so someone who was not on the call can understand it. Start with the problem in the buyer's own words, state the outcome and scope, list what is excluded, give price and terms, and end with a single next step.
What does a faster cycle look like in practice?
Run it as a simple loop.
- End every call by writing down the next step, with a date and an owner, and send it in a short recap message.
- Within a day, send a proposal or a clear answer to the open question.
- Ask who else needs to be involved, and offer to help them.
- Follow up with substance, such as an answer or a summary, never just a nudge.
- Make the path to buying obvious: how to pay, what happens next, when it starts.
- After each deal, win or lose, note where it slowed down and fix the leak.
Track the days between steps
Measure the time from first conversation to proposal, proposal to decision and decision to payment. The longest gap is where to work. You will probably be surprised which one it is.
Review one stalled deal each week
Pick a single deal that has gone quiet (the year-end version is close, nurture or kill every deal) and ask which of the five leaks it fell into. Was there a dated next step? Did the decision-maker ever join? Did the proposal go out quickly? Fifteen minutes on one stuck deal teaches you more than a pipeline report, and you will start to see the same leak repeating.
What I would do tomorrow
I would rather close a deal in two clear conversations than in six anxious ones. If you want your sales path looked at as a whole, see my work with coaches and experts. Speed is a kindness when it comes from clarity, and a trap when it comes from pressure.
A buyer who understands the next step does not need to be pushed to take it.
Keep building.Ekai
Questions people ask
How do I shorten my sales cycle?
Remove the friction that makes buyers wait: agree a specific next step at the end of every conversation, identify everyone involved in the decision early, send proposals quickly and make the path to buying simple. Do not add pressure or false deadlines.
Why do buyers take so long to decide?
Harvard Business Review describes B2B buyers as deeply uncertain and stressed, with a growing group of stakeholders involved in each purchase. Delay often reflects uncertainty and coordination, not lack of interest.
Are urgency tactics a good way to close faster?
They can backfire, because artificial deadlines damage trust. Real deadlines, such as limited capacity or a genuine start date, are honest and fine to state.
What should a good proposal include?
The problem in the buyer's own words, the specific outcome, scope and exclusions, price and terms, a start date and the single next step. Keep it short enough to be forwarded to a decision-maker who was not on the call.
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